Three Seconds Rule

Being a naturally clumsy person,I learned the 'Five-seconds Rule' early in life. 'If you drop something edible on the floor and you can retrieve it in five seconds, eat it anyway.' Say 'gross' if you want, that rule has saved many a parent food replacement costs and dealing with a disappointed and crying child. I have never died or been horribly sick from the 5-Seconds Rule.

It has taken me quite a bit longer to learn the much more important Three-Seconds Rule: 'If you keep you mouth shut for three seconds, then the Holy Spirit has a chance to direct your words.'

This is more than a variation of 'count to ten if you are angry'. For example, sometimes we say the dumbest things when we think something is funny. We can do great damage with our words when someone already feels inadequate or foolish. How about just taking three seconds for the Holy Spirit to build some compassion before we speak?

This is really a personal control and discipline rule. Wait three seconds before you respond to an angry person. Count three seconds before you correct the wait staff at the restaurant. Get to three seconds between every exchange in a serious or tense discussion.

If I observe the 3-Seconds Rule, the Holy Spirit just might get a word in edgewise! He can change my day, improve a relationship, stop an argument and just generally make me a nicer person.
blessing for the day!